My husband and I have been married 12.5 years. He’s been unfaithful repeatedly for 12 years. I’ve shown grace, forgiveness, but am wondering when enough is enough? Am I supposed to live my life constantly wondering who he’s with? When we talk about it…it’s always if I affirmed him or championed him…its so hard to do either of those things when I am sure he’s seeking relationships out of the marriage.