For the last 21 years I have been addicted to pornography. It started out small, I was 13. My life then changed as I grew up and I became more involved in the addiction. I started having sex at 16. By the time I was 19 my girlfriend, now wife, became pregnant. We were married a few later after finding out we were going to have a baby. When my son was six months old, I had an affair and moved out of my house. My wife and I worked things out and stayed married. For the last 13 years I have still struggled with pornography. I have also become a Worship Pastor during this time. My son has found pictures and text messages on my phone in the last year. For the last 3 years my wife has struggled with anorexia and has not wanted me sexually. I have lost trust in my family, and my church family. I need help.